Thrive with us
At Coachesdon’tplay, this community is about more than just us—Michelle and Jesper. It's about you, about all of us. We created this space with one purpose in mind: to lift each other up, to challenge limits, and to share in the power of transformation. Our journey began with struggles that shaped our lives—facing extreme hardships, starting from the ground up, and building something out of nothing. After facing trauma and standing up to adversity, we chose to channel that experience into helping others unlock their potential.
Michelle brings a diverse background in human behavior, education, and resilience, having navigated through challenges that built strength and character. Jesper, after recovering from physical and financial difficulties, emerged with a focus on empowerment, mindset transformation, and leadership. Together, we believe in the unstoppable force of community. We believe that everybody—no matter their story or background—has the power to rewrite their future.
But this community isn’t just about our journey. It’s about the journey we’re all on, together. Every coach, speaker, and participant in this space has their own story to tell and wisdom to share. Each of our coaches brings unique skills and insights—from mindset mastery and emotional intelligence to spiritual wellness and business growth. It’s a collective of people who refuse to settle for mediocrity and instead pursue greatness.
This space is where you can connect, learn, and grow, whether you're exploring entrepreneurship, pushing your fitness goals, or deepening your relationships. Here, we all have something to teach and something to learn. We’ve designed this community to be interactive and supportive, with the aim of fostering real conversations, real connections, and real change.
When you join this community, you’re not just a member—you’re an essential part of the movement. You can write, comment, engage, and express yourself freely. We’ll answer every comment, encourage every question, and celebrate every breakthrough, because we believe that through shared experiences and support, we grow stronger together.
This is your invitation to not just be part of the community—but to own it. Write the blogs you've always wanted to write, ask the questions you’ve always been afraid to ask, and offer the advice that only your unique perspective can bring. We’re all here to lift each other higher, to inspire breakthroughs, and to build something extraordinary.
Welcome to Coachesdon’tplay—where we strive, thrive, and grow together.
"Where knowledge meets like-minded people, change is created".
Mindset Mastery & Personal Development
Stop Sabotaging Yourself: 3 Simple Steps to Break the Cycle
Moderator, 1st of October, 2024
Self-sabotage is one of the biggest obstacles to personal growth. Whether it’s procrastination, negative self-talk, or avoiding challenges, the cycle can feel impossible to break.
Here is 3 tips on how to start overcoming it today:
1. Identify your triggers: What thoughts or situations lead you to self-sabotage? Journaling can help you pinpoint patterns.
2. Challenge your inner critic: Learn to recognize negative self-talk and replace it with empowering thoughts. Ask yourself, “Is this thought helpful or harmful?”
3. Take small, consistent actions: Start with one small step toward your goal each day. Progress, no matter how slow, is key to breaking free.
Takeaway: Self-sabotage doesn’t have to control your life. By understanding your patterns, challenging negative thoughts, and taking action, you can break the cycle and achieve your full potential<3
Visualize Your Success: The Science Behind Manifesting Your Goals
Moderator, 1st of October, 2024
Visualization is more than just daydreaming—it’s a powerful tool that helps you manifest your goals into reality. Research shows that when you visualize achieving your goals, you engage the same neural pathways as you would by physically doing the activity.
Here’s 3 ways in which you can start visualizing success effectively:
- Be specific: Picture your goal in detail. If you want a promotion, visualize the exact position, responsibilities, and even how you’ll feel when you achieve it.
- Engage all your senses: What do you see, hear, and feel in this future reality? The more vivid your visualization, the stronger its impact on your brain.
- Create a routine: Dedicate a few minutes each day to visualizing your success. Pair it with affirmations to reinforce your belief in your ability to achieve your goals.
Build Resilience and Thrive Under Pressure
Moderator, 1st of October, 2024
Resilience isn’t something you’re born with; it’s a skill you can build over time. By adopting a growth mindset and staying flexible, you can thrive even in challenging situations.
The Power of Vulnerability: How It Unlocks Personal Growth
Moderator, 1st of October, 2024
Many people see vulnerability as a weakness, but in reality, it’s a source of strength. When you allow yourself to be vulnerable, you open the door to deeper connections, personal growth, and emotional freedom.
Embrace vulnerability:
- Share your story: Whether in personal or professional settings, don’t be afraid to share your struggles. Vulnerability creates authenticity and invites others to relate.
- Let go of perfectionism: You don’t need to have it all figured out. Accepting your imperfections allows you to grow and learn from your experiences.
- Face your fears: Being vulnerable means facing what scares you. Whether it’s asking for help or stepping outside your comfort zone, take that leap.
Communication & Relationships
How Active Listening Can Transform Your Relationships
Moderator, 1st of October, 2024
Listening is one of the most underrated skills in communication, but it’s also the most powerful. Active listening isn’t just hearing words; it’s about understanding the meaning behind them.
Here’s how you can become a better listener:
• Focus fully on the speaker: Put away distractions and give the person your undivided attention.
• Use body language: Nodding, making eye contact, and mirroring emotions show the speaker that you’re engaged.
• Summarize and reflect back: Repeat key points or ask clarifying questions to show you understand.
Takeaway: Listening is an art, and when done well, it can transform your relationships by showing others they are valued and understood.
Love languages can revolutionize your relationships!
Moderator, 1st of October, 2024
Wether its a work related or personal relationship, people usually give love they way that they want to recieve it, often causing frustration and lack of understanding. Make sure you know your relations´ favorite way of recieving love (acts of service, gifts, physical touch, compliments or quality time), and be equally clear with how you wish to recieve acts of love!
Turning Arguments into Opportunities
Moderator, 1st of October, 2024
Conflict in relationships is inevitable, but it doesn’t have to be destructive. In fact, when handled properly, conflict can strengthen relationships. Here’s how to turn arguments into growth opportunities:
- Stay calm: Take a breath before responding. This keeps emotions in check and allows for rational thinking.
- Focus on the issue, not the person: Attack the problem, not each other. Use “I” statements to express how you feel without blaming the other person.
- Find common ground: Look for areas of agreement, even if they’re small. This can help create a path toward resolution.
Takeaway: Conflict doesn’t have to damage your relationships. When approached with patience and understanding, it can actually bring people closer.
Most importantly, view the conflict with the eyes of love and understanding.
How to Communicate Your Needs in Relationships
Moderator, 1st of October, 2024
Expressing your needs in a relationship is crucial, but many people hesitate, fearing they’ll come across as needy, often causing a minor topic to seem larger for all involved.
Here’s how you can learn to communicate assertively and confidently:
- Understand your own needs: Before you can express them, be clear about what you need from the relationship.
- Use “I” statements: For example, say, “I feel supported when you...” rather than “You never...” This keeps the conversation positive and avoids blame.
- Be specific: Don’t leave room for ambiguity. If you need more time together, explain when and how you’d like that to happen.
Takeaway: Clear, assertive communication is the foundation of a healthy relationship. Don’t shy away from expressing your needs—it’s how true intimacy is built.
Holistic Health & Wellness
The Mind-Body Connection: How Mental Health Impacts Your Well-Being
Moderator, October 1st, 2024
Your mental and physical health are deeply connected, and taking care of one helps improve the other. Stress, anxiety, and negative emotions can lead to physical symptoms such as headaches, digestive issues, and even chronic illness. Nurture the mind-body connection with these easy steps:
- Practice mindfulness: Regular meditation and mindfulness exercises help reduce stress and promote mental clarity.
- Move your body: Physical activity releases endorphins that boost your mood and improve your mental health. Find an exercise routine you enjoy, whether it’s yoga, dancing, or walking.
- Prioritize sleep: Poor sleep can take a toll on both your mental and physical health. Develop a consistent sleep routine to improve both areas of your life.
Takeaway: The mind-body connection is powerful. By nurturing both your mental and physical health, you’ll find more balance, energy, and overall well-being.
The Benefits of Meditation: More Than Just Relaxation
Moderator, October 1st, 2024
Meditation is often associated with relaxation, but its benefits go far beyond stress relief. Often people say the term "think about nothing" - This is impossible and confusing. Meditation is about finding the peace to clear all unneccesary things out of your mind, and only focus on whats left - Your inner self will appear. Regular meditation can improve focus, boost your immune system, and even increase emotional intelligence.
Here’s why you should make it a daily habit to meditate:
- Improves concentration: Meditation trains your brain to focus better by strengthening the neural pathways responsible for attention.
- Reduces stress: By calming your nervous system, meditation reduces the production of stress hormones like cortisol, helping you manage anxiety and tension.
- Enhances emotional health: Mindfulness meditation helps you become more aware of your emotions and teaches you to respond to them more effectively.
Try guided meditation to start!
The Art of Listening to Your Body: Beyond Macros and Micros
Moderator, October 1st, 2024
In a world consumed by numbers - macros, calories, reps - How often do we pause to truly listen to the body? There’s a quiet wisdom within us, a subtle conversation that transcends the data of food and fitness apps. The body knows when it's depleted, when it craves nourishment beyond what the latest diet dictates. But are we listening?
I once believed that optimal nutrition could be boiled down to percentages: 30% protein, 40% carbs, 30% fats. But experience, both personal and professional, has shown me that the real art lies in attuning ourselves to the body’s whispers before they turn into screams. A craving isn’t always just hunger; it’s often a call for balance—emotional, physical, or spiritual. The body craves what it needs to restore equilibrium.
Similarly, in fitness, the wisdom of the body is often drowned out by the pursuit of aesthetic perfection or performance milestones. But the truth is, no app can tell you what your muscles, tendons, and mind need in that particular moment. Rest days aren’t signs of weakness; they are invitations to recalibrate, but it does not have to mean "full rest" either - Listen.
So, if there's one piece of advice I offer, it's this: let numbers guide, but never dictate. Listen deeply to the messages your body sends, for that is where true health and fitness reside.
The Forgotten Fundamentals of Movement
Moderator, October 1st, 2024
When did fitness become a race? A contest of who can lift heavier, run faster, or stretch further? Somewhere along the line, we lost sight of the purpose of movement - it's a language the body uses to express life.
I want to talk today about the forgotten fundamentals of movement, those ancient practices that existed long before gym memberships and smartwatches.
Our ancestors didn’t train; they moved. They walked, ran, squatted, and lifted because their lives required it. Movement was integrated into the rhythms of the day. Today, we isolate it, confine it to a 60-minute window in a climate-controlled environment. While modern fitness has its place, I can’t help but feel we’ve lost touch with the joy of organic movement.
To reclaim this joy, we must reconnect with the simple, functional movements our bodies were designed for. The squat isn’t just an exercise; it’s how humans have rested for millennia. The pull-up mimics the very motions our ancestors used to climb and survive. The more we return to the fundamentals, the more we align our fitness with what’s natural, and the less injury-prone and more fulfilled we become.
Let’s strip away the excess and honor the simplicity of movement. Because fitness isn’t just about strength - it’s about freedom.
Entrepreneurship & Business Growth
The Inner Game of Entrepreneurship: Mastering the Mental Battlefield
Moderator, October 1st, 2024
Being an entrepreneur isn’t just about strategies, business plans, or execution. It’s about mastering the inner game. I’ve mentored many aspiring entrepreneurs, and here’s what I’ve found: Success begins, and often ends, in the mind.
Fear of failure, imposter syndrome, the weight of responsibility - these are the true obstacles on the entrepreneurial path. It’s easy to focus on external challenges like funding or market competition, but those are merely reflections of the inner battles we fight daily.
What if you could use your mind as your greatest asset? The ability to control your thoughts, redirect your energy, and shift your perspective is what separates the greats from the average. This isn’t a quick-fix blog post on “how to think positively” - this is about rewiring how you respond to challenges.
To create mental resilience, you must cultivate daily practices that strengthen your focus, self-belief, and capacity to take calculated risks.
Entrepreneurship is not a sprint - it’s a marathon. But, when you master the mental game, you’ll find yourself running faster, longer, and with more purpose than you ever imagined. Run Along!
Scaling with Soul: How to Grow Your Business Without Losing Yourself
Moderator, October 1st, 2024
Scaling is the holy grail for entrepreneurs. Everyone wants growth, but few stop to ask: growth at what cost? I’ve seen countless businesses skyrocket, only to watch the founder lose their vision, their sanity, and sometimes their soul along the way.
When you scale too fast, you risk losing the very essence of why you started in the first place. Your company becomes a machine, driven by metrics and numbers, while you drift further from the creative spark that birthed the business.
But there’s a way to scale that honors both the business and the person behind it. It requires slowing down, re-centering, and aligning every decision with your core values. Sustainable growth is not just about capturing more market share - it’s about building something that nourishes you as much as it serves others.
Ask yourself, as you grow, are you still aligned with your mission? Are you still passionate about the work? When scaling with soul, the answer will always be "yes."
Chaos feeds Creativity
Moderator, October 1st, 2024
Entrepreneurship is chaos. It’s unpredictable, full of surprises, and often unforgiving. But it’s in this chaos that creativity is born. Many see creativity as something innate, reserved for artists or musicians. But, as an entrepreneur, creativity is your greatest tool - it’s what turns obstacles into opportunities.
Adapt and Overcome
Moderator, October 1st, 2024
The entrepreneurial mindset is one of curiosity, adaptability, and resourcefulness. It's the ability to see beyond what is and imagine what could be. It’s about asking questions like, "What if?" and "Why not?" even when everything seems to be falling apart.
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